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Beth V's avatar

Cheers to both of you! Thanks for the encouragement to speak up. I experienced this form of high control Catholicism at St Marie's here in Manchester, NH where I was a member from ~1992 to 2012.

I moved here after college specifically for the community at St Marie's which was deeply influenced by Steubenville. I moved into a "household" program modeled after Steubenville's. I wanted to be part of an orthodox and vibrant faith community as I was considering becoming a nun.

I watched in disbelief as my former community embraced MAGA and Trump was preached from the pulpit. Threats of eternal torture were used if you voted for a Democrat. having a "properly formed conscience obedient to the Magisterium" was essential for belonging. In retrospect I see how selective the community was s what they embrace re: church teaching and what they did not embrace. There is massive enmeshment with the Republican party. So much so that they do not know where the political beliefs end and Catholicism begins.

Very few our willing to speak up about the red flags here. Even those who see them.

"In our own small way, we can at least name the harm we see, call it what it is, and refuse to let it go unchallenged. The fight for justice is intersectional, and it’s on all of us to call out dangerous beliefs and practices wherever we find them."

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Rhoda Vanderhart's avatar

I am not Catholic (married to one) but grew up in a very legalistic and strict non-denominational church (the Closed Assemblies or Gospel Hall, a distant branch of the Plymouth Brethren). I thankfully escaped at the age of 18 which has allowed me to embark on a wholesome and healthy spiritual journey throughout my life. Looking back, whether Catholic or Protestant or other, people who are drawn to rigid-thinking theology do it for security---they have a high need for structure and feel vulnerable without it. And those who espouse or lead such systems have a high need for control. Although they live their lives mostly avoiding the "moral sins" we all have drummed into our heads, they flagrantly and unknowingly practice the sins of pride and blasphemy, taking control of their world as their own instead of letting Love be in charge.......

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